Spiritualists Leaving Partners of Darkness

For many light workers it gets to the point where the union with someone that can’t stand their sunny attitude, creates a dull shade of gray within.  Choosing to live with one’s opposite can be either funny, or spiritual suicide. Choosing to be a cool breeze and rainbows of light, living with shadows of negativity, aloofness and anger can become lonely.  On the other hand, a perfect landscape has both sun and shade to play in.

But when “the grey” happens, the spiritual attitude “opposites” tend to take over the landscape.  The play stops. At this point staying in the spiritually grey relationship is like choosing spiritual suicide.  Many Light Workers are deciding at this point to stop abusing their Angels with negative inner chatter and move on. But why do light workers stay in grey relationships? Five different people will choose five completely different choices to escape a negative situation.  An example of this is how people choose to escape abuse.

5 PEOPLE THAT EXPERIEINCED ABUSE, REACT DIFFERENTLY

Five people that have experienced rape, abuse, intolerable living situations can take that life experience and work with it differently.  What are some of those choices?

PERSON ONE – Repeats their past by choosing to live in adult abuse.

PERSON TWO – Chooses to become a mega millionaire to prove self worth

PERSON THREE – Chooses to become a therapist for people going through abuse.

PERSON FOUR – Chooses drugs and alcohol to escape their past.

PERSON FIVE - Chooses to shut them selves away in fear.

LEAVING IS A PERSONAL CHOICE.  DON’T FIGHT THE LIGHT

One day you wake up and you just KNOW its time to leave.   It’s like waking up to a poster on your wall you used to love, realizing you have grown and the poster feels childish. The longer you leave it up, the more you may even begin to hate it.  The problem is you can take the poster down off your wall.  A relationship needs compassionate and considerate separation.

Many light workers are realizing the most compassionate choice is to not live a lie.  It becomes impossible to live, teach or have friends of light, if a relationship becomes suffocating and exhausting. Perhaps the best choice is to not fight the light. Allow your angels to guide you to the best path. Stop fighting it.

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The Brass Ovary Psychic Radio Show

Date / Time: {Today!}12/2/2009


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The Velcro Woman Syndrome

She believes that his silence means he is thinking about her. She calls often to remind him that shes hoping they will get together soon. He thought it was cute at first; then he started acting as if she were a stalker. Instead of taking the hint she began to call more, explaining that stalking was the last thing on her mind. Of course the more she emailed and called explaining herself, the more like a stalker she appeared. He called her "Velcro Woman."

WHAT IS A VELCRO WOMAN?

A Velcro Women, whether friends or lovers, sticks tight and won't go away. They often need reassurance that you do not think of them as clingy. They get mad if you spend time with other friends besides them. A Velcro lover wants to spend every moment with you.

THE VELCRO WOMAN DOES NOT GET IT.

Because so many run from "Velcro Woman's" desperate grasp, she sabotages every possibility for a close connection. People sneak behind her back to socialize, afraid of her tears. She just does not understand alone time since she fears her own. She can't find friends that NEED as much as she does. Although she gives gifts, loans money, and can be sugar sweet, people do not realize there's a silent code to her favors. You spend ALL time with her from then on.

SO AREN'T WE ALL DESERVING OF RESPECT?

Absolutely! But demanding someone's time all to oneself becomes a prison. Soon lies, sneakiness and fighting begin. There is something sexy about a woman that spreads herself around to have lunch, a beer, coffee and see a movie with a few people. It says "I have a full life". People feel "safe" with someone that will not stick like Velcro. Even a relationship needs time to bond with other friends to give interest and variety. Time together becomes sweeter.