Older Women - Younger Men

I have been happily married to a man 16 years younger then I am for 11 years.

Did I look for that to happen?  Heavens no.  We had to decide to overlook the discrimination. But the funny thing is this.  He has gray hair.  I haven't even got one strand of it. His back goes out constantly.  Mine never does.  I can skip circles around him.

But the oddest thing is he ACTS 16 years older then me.  Constantly he is stressed about my youthful openness to the world and feels driven to protect me from what he feels is my "over-trust".  It is not easy to be with a man that acts like my Father. {again, he's 16 yrs younger then I am}

It comes to this. He is an old soul.  And I have learned to adjust to his cautious nature despite his "older" attitude...his back aches.....his gray hair.....I have seen tough times and know that no relationship is completely safe and for any relationship to last 11 years as we have, is not easy.  I have enclosed a picture of us taken last year:

Hoarding the Wounded

One of the greatest rules that Nurturers can remember is that its OK to heal and guide broken winged birds, wounded animals and needy acquaintances. Its not OK to allow personal space to lose its boundaries so that one has nothing left to give, emotionally or financially . Becoming a  slave to the addiction to "helping"  lost souls, may secretly be a way to silence a personal cry for empowerment. One day the worst possible scenario can happen.  Waking up and realizing there is  nothing left to give..no more money to loan, or food to spare puts the hoarder in the position of  being labeled "the abuser."

Often the homeless or broken just go to the next emotional hoarder and reap the benefits of stroking their ego.  For over packed helpless animals or adapted children, the "hoarder of the wounded" risks being hauled away to court, headlined in the papers and radio as the worst possible villain.  Better to guide with boundaries, and avoid the pang of being mislabeled.  The purpose of healing is for the wounded ones to recover and fly free, inspired and healthy. It is important to announce when you have reached over load.  It is not healthy to stay in relationships with the wounded and lost simply because one desperately needs to be needed.

SIGNS YOU ARE A HOARDER OF THE WOUNDED

•  You go out of your way to help, asking for nothing back in return ever.

• Every  room and corner is filled with lost people or animals. Space and privacy are completely gone.
• Crates, trailers, garages and kennels are filled to the max with animals lost and purchased.
• You go out of your way to be friends with lost souls, going out of your way to become their leader and guide.
• You go out of your way to avoid strong healthy people, as they make you uncomfortable.

•  Your life begins to look like a crash pad for the homeless

•  You begin to lend money for the thrill of being “owed to”. The rules are all on your terms.

•  Your relationships consist of lost souls that never get it together.

•  You only feel comfortable around rejected people. {They never feel you are really one of them and even check you for wires, using your strength as a cover up.}

•  Your so busy catching everyone else when they fall, you forget what its like to have people catch YOU when you fall.

Please know I am not advocating turning a blind eye to the helpless....but keeping your boundaries. 

HEAL THYSELF FIRST, TO HEAL OTHERS

•  Understand that people will see you as who you are...regardless of who and what you "save".

•  Set boundaries to curb your self from loaning money out knowing full well you won't be paid back..

•  Reach out to someone you feel is as strong as you are. Balance your circle of friends with strong and the wounded.

• Take in only enough animals that you can afford to feed and take to the Vet comfortably. One sick animal can kill all your pets. Over crowding is inhumane....not compassionate.

•  When you hear the inner voice of  insecurity beat you up around strong people, hold your head high, lower your voice pitch and speak slowly.You need strong people too!

•  Allow others to heal you when you’re sad. You will be cherished more.

•  A good rule of thumb is to help selflessly away from home at shelters, but not to let your home  become a YCA or Animal Shelter.  Reason with your self.

•  Everyone needs boundaries. Nurture with love unconditionally, help out in shelters and avoid being mislabeled when your compassionate heart takes on too much .

Remember even Jesus and Buddha healed the broken, but went home to their equal minded Tribe for support, love and honor.

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Email Reading: Should I stay or Go? {Is it Love or Drama?}

1 How does Jordan feel about me and what does he have to offer me in the future? 

Lorie the following dynamics came up on Jordan's feelings for you

• He feels lonely without you….but refuses to acknowledge how much you mean to him, or even be a friendly man at times to you.

• At times when Jordan really feels like covering his heart and soul's need for you he becomes totally arrogant.

• He loves to undermine your sense of security.
• He does this because how he feels for you is very confusing to him and controls him.
• He hates it when you can read his thoughts or feelings.  

WHAT DOES HE HAVE TO OFFER ME?

This has a 2-fold good and bad Lorie.  

•            Jordan can offer you the challenge of trying to get his respect.   Seen is that in other words you have a love hate relationship with Jordan's lack of respect.  It both intrigues you and hurts you at the same time. There is constant drama in the anxiety he creates within you. {Look out you do not call this "anxiety" ....."love".  

•            Jordan can offer you a Magnetic connection like no one else you know.  The sexual and spiritual magnetic connection you have together makes Jordan confusing though. Why?

•            Jordan's behavior makes you work twice  as hard to be "predictable"….as if you are trying to set a good example for him to follow….{This he will not follow as he does not treat you with respect and you are available anyway.}  Your messages are mixed Laurie,  as seen in the cards.

•            Jordan offers you a chance to stay in an obsessed focused state of mind that takes your mind off other things in your life which are frustrating you.  You seem to do the same for Jordan.  The world spins away while you both obsess about your frustrations with each other.

•            To many people none of these qualities would be blessings, but all relationships are different.  We can not judge, and I only tell you what I see.

2 Should I stay with Matt? ( he is who I live with a s have the child with)

THE FOLLOWING DYNAICS COME UP FOR YOU AND MATT.

•           Matt is seen as ambitious, receptive, patient, friendly

•           Notice anything?   All these qualities are OPPOSITE of Jordan.

•           Should you stay with someone who loves you?  Only you can answer this Lori.

•           But understand who ever you raise around your child, is who you choose to be their role model.
 

3 What does Matt feel 4 me and have to offer my life? 

MATT IS SEEN HAVING THE FOLLOWING TO OFFER YOU:

•           Grounding balance, Intuitive ability to feel your thoughts. {This is what you offer Jordan, who does not do the same for you.}

•           Matt has to offer you Gratitude.   {Stuart has to offer you “lack of respect”}

•           Matt is not always a generous person…he does not share money easily, or seem to {in the cards}  have a lot of money to share. 

4 What does your child need most from you?

Lori what your child needs most from you before I even read, is good role models.  Your child will imitate the behavior of the adults in life.  Seen is your childs need  for:

•           RESPECT…….Your Childs reading shows that by being around love and respect, your child will learn to love and respect self as well as others.

•           CONSISTENCY…..teaches that every day you practice your ability to reach your desired goals….your child will follow and do exactly the same in school and later in business finances.

In conclusion, I understand your passion for Matt is not strong and that this makes you feel doubt.  Jordan makes you feel alive, even though his lack of respect makes you deeply sad.  The final choice REALLY lies with your child.  Which man is most like what you want your child's personality to copy? Use THIS as your better role model for you and the child.  Also understand Lorie that when both men are in doubt to you, perhaps the best choice is to live on your own with the child.

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