Thursday, July 15, 2010

Spiritualists Leaving Partners of Darkness


For many light workers it gets to the point where the union with someone that can’t stand their sunny attitude, creates a dull shade of gray within.  Choosing to live with one’s opposite can be either funny, or spiritual suicide. Choosing to be a cool breeze and rainbows of light, living with shadows of negativity, aloofness and anger can become lonely.  On the other hand, a perfect landscape has both sun and shade to play in.

But when “the grey” happens, the spiritual attitude “opposites” tend to take over the landscape.  The play stops. At this point staying in the spiritually grey relationship is like choosing spiritual suicide.  Many Light Workers are deciding at this point to stop abusing their Angels with negative inner chatter and move on. But why do light workers stay in grey relationships? Five different people will choose five completely different choices to escape a negative situation.  An example of this is how people choose to escape abuse.


Five people that have experienced rape, abuse, intolerable living situations can take that life experience and work with it differently.  What are some of those choices?

PERSON ONE – Repeats their past by choosing to live in adult abuse.
PERSON TWO – Chooses to become a mega millionaire to prove self worth
PERSON THREE – Chooses to become a therapist for people going through abuse.
PERSON FOUR – Chooses drugs and alcohol to escape their past.
PERSON FIVE - Chooses to shut them selves away in fear.


One day you wake up and you just KNOW its time to leave.   It’s like waking up to a poster on your wall you used to love, realizing you have grown and the poster feels childish. The longer you leave it up, the more you may even begin to hate it.  The problem is you can take the poster down off your wall.  A relationship needs compassionate and considerate separation.

Many light workers are realizing the most compassionate choice is to not live a lie.  It becomes impossible to live, teach or have friends of light, if a relationship becomes suffocating and exhausting. Perhaps the best choice is to not fight the light. Allow your angels to guide you to the best path. Stop fighting it.

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